According to John C Maxwell and apparently Will Smith too, one common denominator of successful people is that they do fail often and it is the lessons they took from these failures that shaped them to embrace the success that followed the series of failures.
As a healer, what are my thoughts on that might you wonder? Because as you know I remove your blocks that would create failures in your life otherwise right?
Very very good point.
Well here is what I will say and this is A BIG CAVEAT to what Mr Maxwell and Mr Smith seem to assert as a universal truth:
What if you were just gifted or lucky or you just get it from day 1 or things just work out for you by magic? Are you not worthy of embracing success then because you haven’t failed enough?
What about the people who keep failing and never live to see and taste what success feels like? Is that because they didn’t learn the lessons “enough”?
See this is where I disagree with them and here is my take on it:
IT IS NOT MUCH ABOUT HOW OFTEN YOU FAIL OR HOW FORWARD YOU FAIL BUT RATHER YOUR ABILITY TO BOUNCE BACK WHEN THINGS DON’T WORK OUT HOW YOU INTENDED THEM TO.
Because what is failure really?
My definition of failure is when things don’t go the way you desired them. You get a different outcome from you initially conceived in your mind.
Hence the disappointment, the sadness, the rage at times, the self hatred even.
In one of my previous posts, I did mention a previous client of mine, CEO of an M&A practise who actually got it right on day 1 but then because he hadn’t develop the muscles to bounce back collapsed completely when a compounded effects of events, circumstances and energies impacted negatively his business.
So here I quote myself: “how this affected his business: he didn’t know what was suddenly missing, gone or what was needed to recreate the vibes of success and fell into the hole of despair, powerlessness and self pity. Sounds a little harsh? well hummm…. may be but the truth nevertheless. It doesn’t make his pain less real and excruciating though. Of course. But I am showing you what led to the struggle.”
So here it is ladies and gentlemen.
1. Learn what vibes you need to radiate and vibrate at to attract success to you
2. Heal the parts of you that have been repelling success from you and which have experienced trauma as a result of these called failures or let’s call them low vibes situations 😉
3. Keep calling in what you desire with lightness in your heart instead of despair, anguish, desperation and a sense that you are lagging behind
4. Make sure to cleanse any external negative energy (jealousy, envy, darkness) that has been sent to you by third parties either consciously or subconsciously
Work with a trusted healer for all the above if you want to make it quantum pace as you have no time to waste to fail 100 times in a row.
Life is not meant to be that way.
You are meant to flourish, expand and radiate love and joy!
PS: this month is about getting your business to a quantum pace. If you want it quantum and you want it now, then get to it and waste no more time. Let’s bring magic into business 🙂